3- You don’t feel as hurt as you should over certain things:
There are things which completely screw up relationships and certain things which bring cracks in it. Regardless to say, both of these things are to be avoided if you want your relationship to be a happy one. However, even if your partner does something which should have made you feel slightly upset, you feel numb to it. You might think that you’re crazy to do this, but you just feel like there’s no point in anything.
This is the absolute last straw. It is one thing when you’re so in love with your partner that anything they do makes you feel like it’s alright and it’s another when you’re so out of love that you’re numb to anything horrible. Regardless, both of these are worst case scenarios.
4- You begin to long after something else:
At the very beginning of your relationship, you’re so swoon with your partner that you imagine them in every single scenario there is. You cannot see yourself without them. Eventually, it goes to becoming less and less frequent. Hey, there’s nothing wrong with them being less frequent because that just means that you’re busy and preoccupied with other things. However, it should be regarded as a sign of an unhappy relationship when you two no longer feel that strong of a connection.
Everyone, even couples, they need their space and that’s totally understandable. You cannot expect two people to be all up in each other’s face all the time simply because they love each other. Yet, it isn’t healthy if you’ve stopped wanting them in your life. The problem with most unhappy couples is that they’ve been unhappy for so long that they’ve actually gotten used to it by now. They cannot escape that and feel like anything they do will damage the equilibrium.
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