He will never invade your privacy
You’ll never catch him going through your phone to check your messages or emails. In a good and healthy relationship, there is no need to hide things.
If he breaks this rule, it means he doesn’t trust you. And if he doesn’t trust you, then your relationship is set to fail.
Men who act this way are very insecure, so they hurt you in order to make themselves feel better. A good man doesn’t need to make sure that you are faithful. He trusts you and he trusts you for a reason.
You feel safe around him
Women crave safety and security in a relationship. That’s two of the most important things they want. And when you’re dating a good guy, you just somehow know that everything is going to be okay.
You know he is responsible and mature and there is no need for you to worry about anything. You know that no matter what happens, he is right next to you, ready to defend you.
He puts you first
You are his priority. If something is missing from your life, he’ll go above and beyond to fix it. Your happiness is the most important thing to him and if he can make it happen, he will.
He knows that it’s his responsibility to make you feel happy and safe. If he sees you crying, he won’t forgive himself for allowing you to get in to that state.
He is your guardian for whenever you need him. Maybe you don’t, maybe you can take on everything by yourself, but it’s good to know that you have someone to lean on if you just can’t take it anymore.
He is not abusive in any way
He never screams, he never yells. He is good to everyone, including you. He is mature enough to solve things a humanly and calm way. He is more than capable of talking over your problems.
How to know that he’s not faking it? Easy. He’ll act the same way with complete strangers, with friends and with acquaintances. It’s because that’s the way he is.
That’s the way that all good men are.
