Some guys really don’t deserve your time. Some, on the other hand, deserve your full attention.
Your main task here is to distinguish these two and give your attention to those who are serious about you.
If you are struggling to resist your desire to text him back, listen to what I have to say.
I am sure you will change your opinion after you read these reasons.
1. He reaches out only when he is bored
I am sure you don’t want to be someone he will text only when he is bored.
He is probably reaching out because he wants something from you.
If he texts you late in the night, it is a sign that you’re just a booty call to him and that is something you shouldn’t accept, even it is just for fun.
You don’t want him to think that he can have you whenever he wants and that you are an easy girl.
So, whatever you do, don’t text him anything. Don’t even text him to brush him off.
By ignoring him, you will show him that he can’t have you whenever he wants, but that you are the one who runs this game.
2. He hurt you before
If he hurt you before and he didn’t apologize, you shouldn’t text him back.
He could have picked up the phone and called you to give an explanation for his behavior.
One text won’t change anything. It is just proof of his zero effort for you.
Trust me, maybe it will be hard for you to resist texting him, but if you do it now, you will regret it later.
You will feel bad for texting him and letting him lead you on once again. Please don’t do it; show him that you respect yourself. Let him see what he lost!
Only in that way will he leave you alone and not bother you again.
3. He is just a fuckboy
If you didn’t know that he is a fuckboy but you know it now, it is reason good enough not to text him back.
He doesn’t have any shame and he will text you just to see if you are in the mood for him to stop by at your place.
He probably wants a quickie before he goes out with his friends where he will hit on every girl who crosses his path.
But since you know what he is really like, I suggest you just delete his message and go back to your own responsibilities.
You surely have more important things to do than think about him. Truth to be told, he is not really worth it. Actually, he has never been.
4. He never texts you back
If you were always the one who texted him back while he would never do something like that, instead making you stare at an empty screen, you should definitely not answer any of his texts.
Why would you make some effort for the guy who is only interested in getting laid?
You deserve so much more than a fuckboy whose only interest is to lead women on.
He is definitely not hubby material and he will never be. Enough said. So, do yourself a favor and don’t text him ever again.
