Does he like you, or are you just imagining things? Do you sit next to your phone, waiting for his text and begging the Universe to send you just one little sign as proof of this guy’s affection?
I may not be the Universe, but I can give you 7 obvious signs he likes you based on thorough research (and my personal experience)! Let’s be honest with ourselves. The modern dating world abounds in mixed signals, mind games, playing hard-to-get, you name it.
The modern dating world sucks, so I congratulate you for not giving up on looking for a potential partner in the first place because many of us have.
Whoever and wherever you are, know I’m proud of you, and I’m here to help you figure out whether he’s on his way to being head over heels in love with you (or if you’re imagining things).
7 Obvious Signs He Likes You A LOT
How to tell if a guy likes you? When a guy genuinely likes you, his behavior is aligned with his words. Here are 7 obvious signs he likes you more than you think:
1. His behavior is consistent
When a guy genuinely likes you, there are no inconsistencies in his behavior. What does this mean? It means the following:
• He doesn’t give you mixed signals.
• He doesn’t play hard to get (or any other mind games).
• He keeps his promises.
• He texts you and calls you regularly.
• He initiates meaningful conversations.
• He doesn’t play with your feelings.
You don’t worry about his next move because you know he’s someone you can rely on, and he won’t disappoint you in any way. Your gut feeling tells you that you can finally relax because this guy cares deeply about you, and his behavior supports that.
2. His body language supports his words
Our body language tells us what our words fail to say. What does this mean? Your body language ALWAYS shows when you like someone or that someone likes you.
We don’t have control over what we do subconsciously, and that’s why body language signs are undeniable signs he likes you. If he does some or all of the following things, then you know he likes you more than you think:
• He mirrors your movements. When you touch your hair, he touches his hair. When you cross your arms, he also crosses his arms. He mirrors your movements because all his concentration is on you. Why? Because your presence has made him smitten.
• He maintains deep eye contact. He looks you deep in the eye without blinking for a few seconds. His intense gaze makes your body shiver, and you know there is something special between the two of you.
• He straightens his posture around you. When a guy likes you, he will straighten his posture to look more masculine in front of you. He wants you to notice how tall and strong he is. He wants you to know that he’s capable of protecting you.
• He fixes his appearance. He fixes his hair, tie, or his belt. Guys fix their appearance in front of a girl they like because they want to leave a good impression on her.
• His lips part. Neither he nor his lips can believe how beautiful you are inside and out. If his lips part when he sees you, it’s one of the surefire body language signs he likes you.
• Lots of subtle touches. He may touch your shoulder, arm, thigh, you name it. There will be lots of subtle touches because he can’t help himself when he’s around you. You drive him crazy in fascinating ways.
3. He introduces you to his friends (and family)
This is probably one of the most powerful of the 7 obvious signs he likes you, so please don’t take it for granted. If a guy decides to introduce you to his friends and family, he does this for a reason.
He wants to show you off to his best friends and family (which is a clear sign that he’s not interested in other women because he found his special someone). A guy who is proud to be with you will want to show you to the rest of the world, especially those close to him.
He wants everyone to know how happy he is to have you in his life. He wants to share his happiness with those close to him and make you feel welcome in his world.
Every guy knows how much women value their decision to introduce them to their people. So, when a guy genuinely cares about you and likes you, he will want to prove that to you in many different ways, such as introducing you to his fav people.