32 Emotional Signs That He’s Cheating You
19. He stopped talking about the future
Before this affair happened, you and your partner had a healthy relationship. You made future plans, and if you’re still in a relationship, you discussed getting married and having kids.
But all of a sudden, it’s like he excluded you from his future. Whenever you mention everything you used to talk about, he gives you the cold shoulder.
You’re nowhere to be found in his short-term or long-term plans. It’s not that he just stopped mentioning you two moving in together. It’s the fact that he even plans a vacation without you— a vacation you two should have gone together on.
20. Everything you do annoys him
Your partner is annoyed by literally everything you say or do. It’s like there is nothing you can do to make him happy and satisfied.
Your existence in his life bothers him, so he keeps on picking fights over every little thing.
Why is that so? Well, ironically, he sees you as an obstacle to his happiness. This might sound harsh, but your relationship has become nothing but a burden to him.
He doesn’t know how to get rid of you, and your existence brings him nothing but trouble. He assumes that he could ride off into the sunset with his new lover if you weren’t there to bother him.
Of course, this can’t be further from the truth, but it is the reason he bullies you all the time.
21. You’ve found clues
Okay, I’ll admit it, this might be the worst out of all the 32 emotional signs that he’s cheating you: you’ve found actual physical evidence of the affair. Maybe it was the other woman’s lipstick on his shirt, maybe you sensed her perfume when he hugged you, or you’ve seen actual text messages or photos on his phone.
It is clear that this woman is not his coworker or a close friend— she is his mistress. But despite all the evidence, he tries to deny the whole thing. He’s clearly making a fool out of you, and the worst part is that you’re letting him.
22. He criticizes you all the time
This man loved the way you cook. He enjoyed how you kissed him, and he was more than happy with your sex life.
However, all of a sudden, he finds flaws in every little thing you do. He hates the way you dress, criticizes the way you talk, and badmouths your friends.
He uses every chance he gets to put you down, this way or another. He humiliates you in front of friends and makes sure you feel bad about yourself.
The truth is that he keeps on comparing you with his new lover. Now, he thinks that she does everything better than you, and he wonders how you can’t be more like her.
