15. Your loved ones warned you about his behavior
I know that this is embarrassing, but your family members and close friends probably know that your boyfriend or husband is cheating on you. Maybe they saw him with his lover, or they just noticed his suspicious behavior.
And I bet that they tried opening your eyes. Nevertheless, they failed. You ignored their warnings and decided to trust him blindly.
Well, now you know that they were right all along.
16. He is emotionally distant
What was the last time this man told you “I love you”? What was the last time you saw it in his eyes?
The harsh truth is that he doesn’t give a damn about your feelings or problems. He is physically present next to you, but he has become emotionally distant.
If this is the case, it can be a good sign that he has an emotional affair. I hate to break it to you, but he’s fallen in love with this other woman.
17. Private conversations
It’s not that your SO is only hiding his cell phone— he even goes to another room when he gets a phone call. Even when you get a hold of his phone, all of his text messages are in secret chats, and you can’t find out anything you want to know.
When you ask him about these behavior patterns, he never gives you the real reason why he’s doing it. I mean, it’s obvious that he’s hiding something. However, instead of giving you a valid explanation, he makes a big fuss out of it and ends up accusing you of being too controlling.
18. You found another hidden phone
Okay, all of the 32 emotional signs that he’s cheating you are horrible, but this one really clears all the doubts away— even if there are no other clues besides it. If you found another phone you know nothing about, and your SO is clearly hiding it from you, I don’t know what more proof you need.
It could be in his spare tire or somewhere in the back of his closet. The point is that this phone is active and that he’s using it.
Don’t let him sell you the story that it’s his business phone. If it were, you would have known about it, wouldn’t you?
