Is there a behavior pattern all cheaters follow? I’ll tell you right away: yes, there is. Even though every man is different, they all behave in a similar manner when being unfaithful.
I bring you the 32 emotional signs that he’s cheating you. Pay attention to each one of these signs and decide whether your SO is guilty or not!
1. Avoiding intimacy
The first of the 32 emotional signs that he’s cheating you can be seen in the bedroom. I know that most people think that men are like emotionless robots. Basically, they can sleep with whoever they want whenever they want it.
However, the truth is quite different. Avoiding intimacy is actually one of the first signs of cheating.
I hate to break this to you, but your man has no interest in your sex life anymore. All of his attention is going somewhere else.
Besides, maybe he can’t do it physically. His mistress tired him to the point that he couldn’t stand looking at another woman in that way.
2. Social media behavior
If you’re looking for warning signs that your man is cheating, the first thing you should check is his social media accounts. All of a sudden, he’s following some new girls you know nothing about. You see their likes and comments on his posts. Not only that: he returns the favor as well.
But the worst part is that he refuses to post photos and stories with you any longer. When you tag him in a post, he never shares it and ignores it completely.
Well, aren’t these seemingly little things actually telltale signs of what he’s actually doing? Your man is lying that he is single and ready to mingle. And if he’s not having an affair already, he’s definitely making plans for one.
3. He’s hiding his cell phone
Is your partner carrying his phone with him to the bathroom? Does he keep it locked all the time? Look, he wouldn’t be acting this suspicious if he didn’t have anything to hide.
Let’s not forget that he gets all crazy if you even think of taking his phone. It doesn’t have to mean that you want to check his text messages or phone calls— maybe you were just trying to look at the time. Nevertheless, he doesn’t let you do that either.
Of course, this doesn’t mean that he’s physically cheating on you. Maybe he has an emotional affair or is active on online dating sites. However, that is infidelity too.
4. Suspicious financial behavior
When men cheat, their finances usually reveal their secrets. That is why it would be great if you get a hold of his credit card, besides his social media accounts and phone.
Your man is a cavalier in this new relationship, even though he probably doesn’t act like that in his own relationship with you. He is doing everything in his power to impress this new woman he’s been seeing.
He’s probably buying her gifts, has a habit of taking her out on romantic dinners, and maybe even paid for a romantic getaway.
5. He’s suddenly romantic
Out of all 32 emotional signs that he’s cheating you, this one is probably the weirdest one. Some men actually act as if they’re more in love with their SO than ever before when they’re cheating. They get all romantic— they get you flowers, expensive gifts, tell you “I love you” all the time, and plan romantic surprises.
Of course, this one sign can’t be enough for you to accuse him of infidelity. However, if he displays all the other 32 emotional signs that he’s cheating you and he’s suddenly become more romantic, this is his way to cover up his infidelity.
According to family therapists, this is actually a part of cheating husband guilt. He is trying to compensate for his emotional detachment by acting like this.