It’s actually pretty simple: if a man likes you, he wants to spend time with you. This is exactly why this guy invites you on a first date right after your first kiss.
And he specifically calls it a date. He doesn’t ask you to hang out with a bunch of friends, and he doesn’t run into you while you’re both clubbing.
He makes an effort to plan an actual date, he calls or texts you to inform you about the time, he makes reservations, he comes and picks you up, he takes you out to a nice dinner, he takes you back home, and, of course, he kisses you back.
You don’t have to be a rocket scientist to figure this out. Sadly, most guys act like this requires too much of their time, money, and energy.
I’m not saying that he has to take you out somewhere fancy. But it will be enough to treat you like a lady for the night.
13. His friends know you two kissed
Why would he talk to his friends about you if you meant nothing to him? I mean, it’s not like he slept with you, so he is bragging to everyone about it. In that case, it’s a red flag that he is a douchebag who doesn’t know how to respect a woman.
On the other hand, if he ran off and told his friends that he stole a kiss from you, it could only mean one thing: this special moment was a big deal for him.
This guy couldn’t be happier to have kissed you. He is proud of being close to such a catch.
Or he has been into you for so long that his friends were dying to hear the good news. And now they are all acting like high-school teenagers: they’re looking at you two and smiling. Or perhaps they even jokingly ask when the wedding will be.
They’re being all cute about it for one reason only: they know how important you are to their friend.
14. He is stalking your social media
All of a sudden, this guy is the first one to check your Instagram and Snapchat stories. He even replies to most of them – he sends a fire or a heart emoji, or he makes a funny comment.
He comments on all of your posts or slides into your DMs for no particular reason.
Not only that: your best friends tell you that they’ve caught him snooping around their social media as well. Don’t worry, he is not planning on making a move on them – he is just trying to see what you’ve been up to.
If a guy is stalking your social media after your first kiss, it is one of the signs the kiss meant something to him. This is especially true if you two weren’t familiar with each other’s lives before the kiss took place
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The first thing he wants to find out is your relationship status. He wants to know whether there is someone special in your life and if it’s safe to make a move on you.
If he knows you’re single, he is investigating what men could be a threat to him. Basically, men do the same things we do – they’re just usually better at hiding it.
15. He gets all jealous
You two are not in an official relationship just yet. He is not your boyfriend, so technically, he has no right to get all jealous and possessive.
But hey, it’s not like he can order himself not to feel a certain way. Whether he wants to admit it or not, he’d die if he saw you with another guy. As far as he is concerned, you two have sealed the deal.
You see that he is trying hard to hide his jealousy, but it’s actually quite obvious that he wants you to himself.
He can’t stand the idea of seeing you talk to another man, he asks a lot of questions about your whereabouts, and he suddenly starts to hate all of your male friends.
16. The kiss was slow and long
If a guy cares for you, he won’t go for a passionate kiss right away. Instead, the kiss will be slow and long.
