4. He asks if you enjoyed it
If a guy asks you if you liked the smooch afterward, it’s one of the biggest signs the kiss meant something to him. However, he’s too shy to be the first one to admit it.
So instead of telling you how crazy he is about you, he’ll ask for your confirmation. He wants you to be the first one to tell him that your body released oxytocin when your lips locked, that you had the best kiss of your life, that you’re head over heels for him, and so on.
Only when you declare your love for him in this manner will he follow and tell you the kiss meant the world to him as well.
Here’s a piece of dating advice for this situation: this is not the time to play hard to get. Be honest, and tell him that you liked the kiss very much. If you do, he’ll open up as well.
But what if you would prefer something different about the smooch? Look, this is just the first time you guys kissed – there will be plenty of room for improvement and plenty of opportunities for you to tell him what he could do better.
5. He tells you he liked it
However, there are also guys who aren’t shy about their feelings, guys who won’t mind opening up to you after kissing you.
If your man is one of these people, you’ve hit the jackpot. You don’t have to overthink the entire situation and do your best to suddenly become a mind reader. Everything is out in the open.
He tells you how much he liked the kiss, and that’s more than enough.
But wait, I know what you must be thinking right now. You think that this doesn’t mean much. Just because he liked how his mouth touched yours doesn’t mean that he sees your kiss as a big deal.
Well, let me tell you that you couldn’t be more wrong. If the kiss meant nothing to him, he wouldn’t have bothered mentioning anything – he would just go on with his day as if nothing had happened.
6. He texts you right away
How does he behave after your first kiss? Does he pretend like it never happened? Or does he text you right after you part ways?
The answers to these questions are crucial. If a man initiates contact after the kiss, it’s a clear sign that the physical contact between you two meant something to him.
It’s even better if he calls instead of texting. This way, you can take him more seriously. However, a cute text message will be enough – maybe he’s too nervous to call you right away.
The point is that he clearly wants you to stay in touch.
What if he texts you but doesn’t mention the kiss? That’s perfectly fine too. He doesn’t want to make the situation awkward. Instead, he’s decided to go with the flow and see where things take you both.
And if he sends you a kiss or heart emoji, it’s safe to interpret it as a real kiss.
7. He uses his hands a lot
When a guy uses his hands a lot while kissing you, you assume that he wants something more than a gentle smooch, especially if you two are sharing a passionate kiss. And I mean, who could blame him?
It’s clear that he’s madly attracted to you, so it’s no wonder he wants to take it a step further. Don’t worry, this doesn’t mean that he is trying to use you just to get laid.
This man is obviously crazy about you and has been waiting for this opportunity for too long. And now, he finally got it.
After all this time, he has the chance to hold your face in his hands and explore your body at least a little bit. So if he’s using his hands, he’s not doing it because he wants to take advantage of you.
