6. Talks about the future are off the table
You daydream about your future together and starting a family but it seems like he’s not on the same page. Just when you think it’s the right time to make some plans, you hit a wall and realize you can’t even make plans for the next day!
Men happily engage in these conversations when they’re sure you’re the one. If he just brushes you off whenever you mention your future together, it can tell you a lot.
Maybe he even says something along the lines of it not being important or the right time to discuss it. Either way, he doesn’t want to commit to you in the long run.
7. Dry or no responses to your texts
Ohh, those days when he would text you nonstop. His every message and call would make you giggle and blush like a schoolgirl who saw her crush.
Nowadays he responds to your texts hours later, giving you some lame excuse. Even when it’s your lucky day and he finally answers you, his responses are dryer than Sahara!
I always wondered how my ex never responded on time but didn’t leave his phone for a minute when we were together. Whenever someone called him he would answer in a heartbeat! Well, now I understand, and let me tell you the harsh truth, he’s not interested anymore.
8. He’s cold and distant
You always loved spending time together and couldn’t wait to see each other, but recently something’s different. He doesn’t even bother to initiate dates with you.
When you’re together and you’re telling him about your days or problems, it’s like he just zones out. He doesn’t even listen to what you’re saying or gives you bland responses just so it doesn’t turn out he’s completely ignoring you.
Sometimes they don’t even realize the way they behave but other times they’re doing it on purpose so you’d get a hint. Basically, they secretly hope you’ll get tired and break up before them.
9. Making an elephant out of a fly
All of a sudden everything is a problem and a big one! You can’t discuss anything without him being the drama queen.
He exaggerates every situation and creates an issue where there isn’t one. There is just no way to handle anything calmly and act like grown-ups. I’ve been there and when I finally couldn’t take it anymore, I just snapped and left him.
When they’re not serious about you, they’ll push you away and give you reasons for a breakup. If you ever find yourself in a situation like this, then give him what he wants! It’ll be better for everyone.
Just remember that some men don’t want to take accountability for their actions, and also love to be the victim. They’re often not brave enough to initiate a breakup and will therefore do these crappy things so you’d get a hint.
So yeah, next time a man gives you enough reasons to leave him, don’t hesitate to take action. Nine times out of ten, you’ll be better off without him anyway.
